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		<title>Wait until the Buying Decision Team is in place to visit or pitch</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2012 10:24:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you attempt to get meetings just to ‘get in front of’ a prospect (assuming that your solution will rule the day); if you present to whichever prospects will agree to see you; if you pitch when the buyer doesn’t have all of their ducks in a row, you're not only wasting your breath, but potentially losing a sale.<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/05/wait-until-the-buying-decision-team-is-in-place-to-visit-or-pitch/">Wait until the Buying Decision Team is in place to visit or pitch</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-10810" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/05/wait-until-the-buying-decision-team-is-in-place-to-visit-or-pitch/aghast1/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-10810" title="aghast1" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/aghast1.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="247" /></a> If you attempt to get meetings just to ‘get in front of’ a prospect (assuming that your solution will rule the day); if you present to whichever prospects will agree to see you; if you pitch when the buyer doesn’t have all of their ducks in a row, you&#8217;re not only wasting your breath, but potentially losing a sale.</p>
<p>Until or unless the <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fsharondrewmorgen.com%2F2011%2F07%2Fwhos-in-the-meeting-and-whos-not%2F" target="_blank">entire Buying Decision Team is in place</a>, the buyer will not know how to hear you: until everyone who touches a solution has had their voice heard, and adds their choice criteria to possible solutions, a buyer doesn’t know what they need to buy.</p>
<p>Let’s say you and your Partner have a brief, rushed chat as you leave for work, about the possibility of moving. When you return for dinner, you tell your Partner you’ve got a surprise: You’ve bought a great house on the way home from work and you’re moving next week!</p>
<p>You would probably have a massive fight: there are too many private, <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fsharondrewmorgen.com%2F2010%2F07%2Fbuyers-buying-journey-podcast-2-making-sales-relevant%2F" target="_blank">behind-the-scenes decisions</a> that must be made to manage each person’s criteria, feelings, future plans. Bigger house/smaller house. Leave the city/move to country. Move to a different state/different country. Near one kid’s school district/near someone’s work. Will your house sell easily? Do you need to call the bank and get a loan/financing if you don’t sell your house first? When to put your house on the market?</p>
<p>Let’s say instead of coming home with a new house, you called a friend and said you might move, and the friend called me since I’m a realtor. I call you up the next day to tell you about this fabulous house.</p>
<p>Do you want to hear about the house? Why not? You’re not ready: you won’t have made all of the decisions you’ll need to make to have the relevant choice criteria to even consider the house. <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fsharondrewmorgen.com%2F2011%2F02%2Fthe-buying-decision-team%2F" target="_blank">It’s too early</a>.</p>
<p><strong>SELLING VS. BUYING</strong></p>
<p>There is a difference between your solution and what a buyer needs/wants to buy/is able to buy; between your selling patterns and a buyer’s buying patterns. And buyers will only buy according to their buying patterns. If you <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fsharondrewmorgen.com%2F2009%2F07%2Fselling-patterns-vs-buying-patterns-success-is-in-the-difference%2F" target="_blank">use selling patterns</a>, you are merely selling to those folks whose buying patterns are the same as your selling patterns.</p>
<p>Think of the telemarketing industry of a decade ago. Their solutions were fine. It was their selling patterns people objected to.</p>
<p>Until or unless buyers have all of their choice criteria ready, they won’t know how to hear you; won’t know the details to listen for; won’t know how your solution would fit. It’s like offering house details before they’ve decided to move. And they won’t use your criteria to make their choices.</p>
<p>When you contact a prospect, if you’re attempting to gather data about their ‘needs’ before the <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fuser%2Fsharondrew%23p%2Fu%2F18%2F05lWuknmaGk" target="_blank">entire Buying Decision Team</a> is on board, you are only hearing one set of possible buying criteria, from one person who may or may not be on the Buying Decision Team, and who probably doesn’t know the full set of criteria. It’s a waste of your time and theirs – hence, a tiny fraction will speak to you, and a smaller fraction of possible buyers will give you an appointment.</p>
<p>When you call <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fsharondrewmorgen.com%2F2011%2F07%2Fdo-you-want-to-make-a-sale-or-an-appointment%2F" target="_blank">just to make an appointment</a>, you are getting rid of a minimum of 90% of your list because they don’t want, or aren’t ready for, or see no need for (whether they need your solution or not) a new solution. And those that will agree to see you are already in the market, so you enter in a competitive situation.</p>
<p>You are wasting over 50% of prospects by trying to get an appointment before they have determined their buying criteria. And at this point in their buying path, you can’t help them choose to see you, or decide to purchase, using the sales process.</p>
<p><strong>YOU CAN HELP BUYERS BUY: BUY NOT WITH YOUR SOLUTION</strong></p>
<p>The last thing buyers do is choose a solution. My latest book <em><a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fdirtylittlesecretsbook.com%2F" target="_blank">Dirty Little Secrets</a>: why buyers can’t buy and sellers can’t sell and what you can do about it</em> explains all of the off-line decision issues buyers must address before they have the full set of criteria to know what solution to choose.</p>
<p>Instead of calling them to ‘understand need’, call them to help them navigate their buying decision journey. Instead of trying to get an appointment, use your connection to help them figure out what Excellence would look like for them. And once you’ve helped them put together the full Buying Decision Team, then the whole team will be eagerly waiting to meet you.</p>
<p><a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fsharondrewmorgen.com%2F2010%2F03%2Fbuying-facilitation-and-sales-the-dynamic-duo%2F" target="_blank">Buying Facilitation®</a> will give you a skill set to start your conversations differently and facilitate the buying decision journey. Use Buying Facilitation® first, and <em>then</em> they will be happy to meet with you.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>Sharon Drew is a contributor to the new Entrepreneurial Selling program by RAIN Group. Check out the <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.1shoppingcart.com%2Fapp%2F%3Faf%3D1378565" target="_blank">free video series</a> leading up to the program.</p>
<p>To learn more about Buying Facilitation®, read <em><a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fdirtylittlesecretsbook.com%2F" target="_blank">Dirty Little Secrets</a>: why buyers can’t buy and sellers can’t sell and what you can do about it</em>, or <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.buyingfacilitation.com%2Fstore%2Fp%2F71-Audio-MP3s-Live-Training.aspx" target="_blank">hear Sharon Drew</a> use the model with prospects.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Learn Buying Facilitation" href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.buyingfacilitation.com%2F" target="_blank">Learn Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.buyingfacilitation.com%2Fstore%2Fc%2F21-1-1-Coaching.aspx" target="_blank">Implement Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.newsalesparadigm.com%2Fbuying-facilitation%2Fservices%2Ftraining-license.php" target="_blank">License Buying Facilitation</a><a title="License Buying Facilitation" href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=398200&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.newsalesparadigm.com%2Fbuying-facilitation%2Fservices%2Ftraining-license.php%3Fsource%3Dnav" target="_blank">®</a></p>
<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/05/wait-until-the-buying-decision-team-is-in-place-to-visit-or-pitch/">Wait until the Buying Decision Team is in place to visit or pitch</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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		<title>Winning the RFP business: a case study</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 16:57:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Years ago I did a Buying Facilitation Method® program for a now-defunct group at KPMG. Before working with this team, they were using 2-4 people, spending between $500,000 and $1,000,000, and spending weeks creating large, glorious presentations to woo and wow the prospects as part of their proposal responses. They won 20% of the business.<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/05/winning-the-rfp-business/">Winning the RFP business: a case study</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-6798" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/05/winning-the-rfp-business/business-proposal/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-6798" title="business-proposal" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/business-proposal.jpg" alt="" width="298" height="320" /></a>Years ago I did a <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training.php">Buying Facilitation Method® program</a> for a now-defunct group at KPMG. Before working with this team, they were using 2-4 people, spending between $500,000 and $1,000,000, and spending weeks creating large, glorious presentations to woo and wow the prospects as part of their proposal responses. They won 20% of the business.</p>
<p>That means, they wasted 80% of their time (and either had to hire more people to make up the slack, or not have enough consultants to deliver and close real business).</p>
<p>How could they know, before spending time and effort, which of the proposals were in the winning 20%? Or even expand that percentage to, say, 40%?</p>
<p>The sales model does not help with this, as it assumes that if gather the right data and &#8216;understand&#8217; the problem, you can give great data and service to whomever shows up as a prospect and win the business. But that is obviously false: the sales model fails 93% of the time in conventional selling, 99% of the time when using <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/category/sales-marketing-automation/">marketing automation</a>, or 80% of the time when there are only a few vendors receiving the RFP &#8211; more than 80% when there are many vendors (proposals of lesser-known companies win about 10% of their proposals).</p>
<p>When my client &#8211; let&#8217;s call him Dave &#8211; told me he and a few others were working &#8217;round the clock on a proposal after receiving an RFP from a large airplane manufacturer who had historically used the now-defunct Arthur Anderson, I asked him why the prospect wasn&#8217;t going to use AA again for this job? He had no answer, but he called them:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>DAVE: Why aren&#8217;t you using AA for this job?</em><br />
<em>AIRPLANE COMPANY: We are. We just needed a second bid.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Obviously, this was not going to be KPMG&#8217;s business. So instead of writing a proposal, we carefully went over the RFP and discovered all of the assumptions within, that weren&#8217;t being addressed as part of the RFP, recognized the change management issues they would have with the implementation, and realized the buy-in issues many of the departments were going to experience as they faced massive change and disruption once the project was underway.</p>
<p>We put together a list of <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/learning/features.php">Facilitative Questions</a> on a couple of pages, such as:</p>
<ul>
<li>How will you know when you have the adequate amount of, and appropriate, buy-in before you begin, to diminish any disruption as you move toward implementation?</li>
<li>What would you need to do, prior to choosing a vendor, to know if one vendor over another can build an implementation to avoid disruption entirely?</li>
</ul>
<p>Instead of sending off a proposal, <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/learning/model-in-action.php">we sent the FQs</a>. Of course, AA won the business. But 6 weeks in to the project, they fired AA and called KPMG to come and do the work. Why?</p>
<blockquote><p><em>When we saw your questions, we realized we had not considered the implications of bringing in this type of change. When AA was not addressing these issues, and moving ahead, we realized we would potentially have a disaster on our hands as many of our folks weren&#8217;t buying-in and we had not properly managed the change. We would like you to take over, and start with the change management issues before you move ahead with the work.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Sales folks assume that buyers merely need info about a solution on your RFP. But they are using your proposal to gather the data they need to manage the change. Instead of responding merely at the solution level, make sure your RFPs address the change implementation problems your solution will incur. Who knows: you might not even need that proposal &#8211; especially if you <a href="http://buyingfacilitation.com">use Buying Facilitation™</a> on them before you get the RFP and they know how to choose you over the competition because you&#8217;ve used Facilitative Questions on them throughout your sales cycle.</p>
<p>Because if a buyer knows exactly how to choose one vendor over another, or one vendor has helped them (before choosing a solution) consider solutions for all of the internal change issues that must be addressed as the solution is implemented, they would not need an RFP.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>Listen to, and read about, change management solutions using decision facilitation on <a href="http://www.facilitatingbuyin.com">www.facilitatingbuyin.com</a>.</p>
<p>Learn about how to help buyers think about the implications of what a change issues a solution will create. Read <em><a href="http://dirtylittlesecretsbook.com">Dirty Little Secrets: why buyers can&#8217;t buy and sellers can&#8217;t sell and what you can do about it</a>.</em></p>
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<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/05/winning-the-rfp-business/">Winning the RFP business: a case study</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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		<title>Where does selling begin? Activate the buying journey immediately</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 10:15:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Where does selling begin? Why do we begin a buyer conversation by focusing on finding needs? <p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/04/begin-sales-calls-with-change-management/">Where does selling begin? Activate the buying journey immediately</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-9765" title="world-call" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/world-call.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="251" />Where does selling begin? Why do we begin a buyer conversation by focusing on finding needs? What are we gaining/losing by starting there?</p>
<p>Buying Facilitation® will help you begin facilitating  <a href="http://www.raintoday.com/pages/5573_podcast_episode_44_stop_pitching_your_services_and_facilitate_the_buying_decision.cfm">the buyer&#8217;s decision path</a> - defined as those back-end human issues (relationship, political, and financial) that must be managed prior to any agreement to  purchase &#8211; from first moment of the call.  By starting connections with a different focus, you can activate the purchasing decision process   immediately.</p>
<p><strong>THE PROBLEM WITH STARTING WITH A &#8216;NEEDS&#8217; FOCUS</strong></p>
<p>Starting with the needs assessment, you are limiting your prospect audience by a factor of 4: in the studies I&#8217;ve done with my clients, they have brought in 4x the prospects &#8211; prospects that not only invited them in to visit, but had the entire Buying Decision Team waiting for them on first meeting/call.</p>
<p>When you begin your communication (either calls, or marketing automation) by attempting to find a buyer with a need that matches your solution, you are limiting your business.</p>
<ul>
<li>The only people who will agree to speak are those already searching for a solution similar to yours &#8211; and you will not know where they are in their search process;</li>
<li>Prospects who might need your solution but hadn&#8217;t started the process of <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/09/start-with-change-management-where-to-begin-selling/world-call/">enlisting internal support</a> for change will tell you they are fine, thanks.</li>
<li>Prospects who might need your solution but are battling internal demons will tell you it&#8217;s a bad time and call back in, oh, 6 months.</li>
<li>Prospects who don&#8217;t know you, or don&#8217;t want to speak with a stranger, will tell you they are fine. That may or may not mean they need your solution. And <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/07/we-can-never-understand-the-systems-people-livework-in/">you&#8217;ll never know</a>.</li>
</ul>
<p>The problem is that the focus is on resolving a problem they aren&#8217;t ready to resolve. If they knew how to resolve their problem, they would have done so already.</p>
<p>Imagine if you focus on Excellence. Look at the difference between these openers:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>How are you adding new sales skills to those you&#8217;re currently teaching your folks, for those times when you need them to be closing more business?<br />
</em>vs.<br />
<em>We&#8217;ve got some powerful sales training that will help you close more. Do you mind if I ask you a few questions?</em></p></blockquote>
<p>What&#8217;s the difference? Or this example:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>How would you know if it were time to bring in additional banking solutions for those times when your current bank can&#8217;t give you the flexibility you might need?<br />
</em>vs.<br />
<em>I&#8217;m a small business banker, and I&#8217;ll be in your neighborhood next week. I&#8217;ve got some wonderful new products designed specifically for small businesses such as yours. Do you mind if I stop by either Tuesday or Wednesday?</em></p></blockquote>
<p>What&#8217;s the difference?</p>
<p>In one question you&#8217;re helping the prospect decide if they want to add something new, and start them thinking about change. In the other, you&#8217;re attempting to place a solution <em>before</em> they have had the chance to think about whether or not they want to change.</p>
<p><strong>BUYING IS A CHANGE MANAGEMENT PROBLEM</strong></p>
<p>Until or unless buyers <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/08/a-buying-decision-is-a-change-management-problem/">figure out how to manage</a> all of the back-end change management issues, they cannot buy. They absolutely cannot buy. Remember: they&#8217;d done &#8216;well-enough&#8217; until now, and if they really needed you, they would have purchased you (or your competition) already.</p>
<p>The system buyers live in is sacrosanct. I have a full chapter about this in my latest book: <em><a href="http://dirtylittlesecretsbook.com/">Dirty Little Secrets</a>: why buyers can&#8217;t buy and sellers can&#8217;t sell and what you can do about it</em>. They will always choose to preserve the system rather than face the mess that buying a new solution will bring&#8230;.unless they figure out how to minimize the mess and make sure the change issues are handled and there is appropriate buy-in to something new.</p>
<p>If you begin your conversations, as I did above, with Facilitative Questions and Buying Facilitation®, buyers can start figuring out their change issues right from the first call. Note: you thinking you know what they need does not help them get the internal buy-in necessary. Not to mention without the entire Buying Decision Team on board, they won&#8217;t know what they need, either.</p>
<p>By the end of the first call, you can actually teach prospect how to bring together the full Buying Decision Team, and all be on your second with you, to lead them through their change and choice issues re seeking excellence - hopefully with your solution.</p>
<p>I go back to the question I&#8217;ve been posing since 1988: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/sharondrew#p/u/16/u6uKGZhdOzs">Would you rather sell? or have someone buy? </a>They are two different activities. Start by helping them decide how to buy, and you&#8217;ll sell a helluva lot more.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>Learn Buying Faciltiation® with Sharon Drew in a <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/c/21-1-1-Coaching.aspx">classroom setting</a>, or through <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/42-26-Week-Buying-Facilitation-Guided-Study-Coaching-Session.aspx">individual learning</a>.  Listen to Sharon Drew have <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/71-Audio-MP3s-Live-Training.aspx">live prospecting conversations</a> with learning discussions.</p>
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<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/04/begin-sales-calls-with-change-management/">Where does selling begin? Activate the buying journey immediately</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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		<title>The buyer’s buying process vs. the sales model: two divergent roads</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2012 14:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The sales process is woefully inadequate. It merely focuses on the last 10% of the buying decision: the solution and vendor choice.
To understand and influence the buyer&#8217;s buying decision process and all of the people, politics and relationships that buyers must manage internally to be ready to make a purchase, it&#8217;s necessary for sellers to learn a new language. Not [...]<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/04/the-buyers-buying-process-vs-the-sales-model-two-divergent-roads/">The buyer’s buying process vs. the sales model: two divergent roads</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-6465" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/04/the-buyers-buying-process-vs-the-sales-model-two-divergent-roads/medium_diverging_paths/"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-6465" title="medium_diverging_paths" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/medium_diverging_paths-250x174.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="174" /></a>The sales process is woefully inadequate. It merely focuses on the last 10% of the buying decision: the solution and vendor choice.</p>
<p>To understand and influence the buyer&#8217;s buying decision process and all of the people, politics and relationships that buyers must manage internally to be ready to make a purchase, it&#8217;s necessary for sellers to learn a new language. Not the language of sales, but the language of decision making, the language of systems, and the language of change management.</p>
<p>The sales model disregards the complex issues &#8211; both human and corporate - that buyers must handle behind-the-scenes. It&#8217;s the tech guy not wanting to outsource, or the management team not wanting training, or the sales and marketing folks who can&#8217;t work together. Human issues regarding change, or ego, or relationships. And sales does not facilitate this.</p>
<p><strong>WHAT IS A BUYING DECISION?</strong></p>
<p>The majority of a buying decision takes place <em>before the consideration</em> <em>of a solution or vendor</em> and includes</p>
<ul>
<li>collecting an entire <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/02/get-onto-the-buying-decision-team-on-the-first-call/">Buying Decision Team</a> that includes all of the people and job functions that will touch the potential solution;</li>
<li>figuring out how to incorporate all of the appropriate systems/people issues so that when bringing in something new, the status quo will be able to maintain itself;</li>
<li>reviewing current work-arounds and current/favored vendors to ensure there is no possibility that familiar resources can resolve the problem;</li>
<li>getting the appropriate buy-in from the appropriate people to ensure there is support for change, no sabotage, and internal creativity/leadership;</li>
<li>the <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/11/managing-pushback-create/">solution/vendor</a> choice;</li>
<li>agreements and implementation strategies to ensure success.</li>
</ul>
<p>Until or unless these things happen, a buyer cannot buy. Regardless of their &#8216;need.&#8217; This is where buyers go when they disappear. You can help them manage this &#8211; but  not with the sales model.</p>
<p><strong>THE BOTTOM FUNNEL &#8211; DECISION MAKING and SOLUTION CHOICE</strong></p>
<p>The problem, in terms of lost revenue, lost prospects, overlong sales cycles,  and leads that come in at the top funnel but do not &#8216;come out&#8217; the bottom, is that sales doesn&#8217;t offer the capability to enter the complete decision journey: you don&#8217;t enter early enough in their buying process. Not to mention, <em>people do not know what to do with solution  information if they haven&#8217;t already opened a place for change and you are wasting their time and yours by presenting solution data too early.</em></p>
<p>At the &#8216;<a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/11/leads-falling-bottom/">top of the funnel</a>&#8216; you&#8217;ve collected names. You don&#8217;t know if they are leads, or prospects, or buyers. In some instances, they don&#8217;t know either. But when you approach them, not only do you have no idea if your solution is really what they need (you are merely assuming and hoping) and will fit in with their status quo, but they most likely have no idea either.</p>
<p>Sometimes you get lucky and the prospect has done all of the work already. But this is merely <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/05/why-is-a-90-failure-rate-ok-3/">5% of the leads you have</a> &#8211; the ones who are easy, who are ready to buy. So you are pushing for appointments, doing presentations and pitches, to 95% of the lead population who needs something more from us: help with the off-line end of the buying process.</p>
<p>There is a way to enter the buyer&#8217;s buying process earlier, and help them manage their behind-the-scenes issues. But it&#8217;s not called &#8216;sales&#8217; and it&#8217;s not solution/need driven.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/learning/">Buying Facilitation™</a> is a very different skill, with a different focus, than sales. It&#8217;s a decision facilitation model that works alongside of sales and actually helps buyers navigate through the early part of their internal decision journey, much like a GPS system helps drivers navigate their route.</p>
<p>Your choice is to sit and wait for them to accomplish this, or hope that your pushing, or presentation, or product pitch or price reduction will result in a sale. And entering the buying process on the very first call makes the entire process much quicker and far, far easier.</p>
<p>Only 1-6% of sales are now closing. Obviously something is going on that you are not handling or you&#8217;d be closing far more.</p>
<p>Learn a new skill set to add to the sales model, and first help buyers manage their buy-in, change management journey. Differentiate yourself. Enter the buying process at the beginning. Buyers have to do this anyway &#8211; with you or without you. Rather than sit and wait for them to do it, <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2009/10/be-the-gps-for-your-buyer/">be the GPS system</a> for the buying process, and help buyers buy.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>To learn more about the Buying Facilitation Method®, here are some learning tools:</p>
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<li><a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/products/modules.php">Learning Accelerators</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/products/guided-study.php">Guided Study program</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/products/self-guided-learning.php">MP3s of Sharon Drew</a> using Buying Facilitation™</li>
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		<title>Selling with Integrity</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 12:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What, exactly, is selling with integrity? Is it about creating great solutions that make a difference in companies and lives? 
<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/04/selling-with-integrity-2/">Selling with Integrity</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-9709" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/04/selling-with-integrity-2/backscratch/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-9709" title="backscratch" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/backscratch.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="224" /></a>What, exactly, is selling with integrity? Is it about creating great solutions that make a difference in companies and lives? Or respecting and serving our prospects and clients and employees?</p>
<p>I&#8217;d like to talk about what that means for me&#8230;and admittedly, I&#8217;m a hammer looking for a nail: I&#8221;ve written a NYTimes Business Bestseller (now-outdated) on the subject (<em>Selling with Integrity: reinventing sales through collaboration, respect, and serving). </em>So excuse my rant. But rant I will.</p>
<p><strong>SOLUTIONS VS. CHANGE MANAGEMENT</strong></p>
<p>The sales model is designed to place solutions: sellers are trained to understand need, and place a solution accordingly. Arguably, the buyer gets what they need and the seller makes a commission: win/win. But is a win/win?</p>
<p>In my map of the world, the above ends up as a net loss. Here&#8217;s why: because the sales model merely enters at the solution placement end of the buying decision path, it avoids and ignores the <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=396110&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fsharondrewmorgen.com%2F2011%2F06%2Fwhere-does-the-buy-cycle-start%2F" target="_blank">entire path buyers</a> must traverse to enlist the right people, manage the change, and ensure system stability as they attempt to discover their best solution options. Therefore, sellers just come in at the end (or come in far too early with this data at the beginning) to offer a solution, and do not have the skill set to facilitate the back-end change management journey, leaving buyers floundering, trying to get the right people on board, and get the right agreements.</p>
<p>Ultimately, using the sales process without Buying Facilitation® (which manages the change management end of the buying decision journey), sellers end up closing only those buyers who show up with all of their <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=396110&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fuser%2Fsharondrew%23p%2Fu%2F5%2F8cdVTLn4dIc" target="_blank">ducks in a row (about 7%)</a> &#8211; the low hanging fruit.</p>
<p>Indeed, if all of that needs assessment and relationship building and getting-past-the-gatekeeper stuff worked, we&#8217;d be closing a lot more sales. And buyers would be getting their needs met much faster: the time it takes them to figure out how to manage the backend change is the length of the sales cycle.</p>
<p>So by not helping manage the change and the behind-the-scenes decision path &#8211; very different from solution-focused/choice activities &#8211; we are actually harming buyers: with no help, it takes them longer than necessary to determine the folks to include in defining a solution, or figure out how to manage the change so there is no disruption, or how to get the necessary buy-in, to purchase our solution.</p>
<p>Net net, it obviously harms us also by elongating the sales cycle&#8230;not to mention we can&#8217;t close those prospects who can&#8217;t figure it all out.</p>
<p><strong>OUR BUYERS WILL BUY EVENTUALLY &#8211; BUT NOT FROM US</strong></p>
<p>The industry standard says that 80% of our prospects will buy a similar solution as ours within 2 years of us speaking with them. That means: they&#8217;ve got the need, but don&#8217;t know how to get their ducks in a row to buy. And we didn&#8217;t know how to help them figure out how to do it sooner.</p>
<p>Buyers <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=396110&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fsharondrewmorgen.com%2F2011%2F06%2Fwhy-wont-sellers-change%2F" target="_blank">don&#8217;t want to buy</a>. They want to resolve a business problem. If they must make a purchase, they must make sure there is appropriate buy-in from the people and rules and and and&#8230;</p>
<p>Sellers tend to think in terms of placing a solution. Buyers think of avoiding chaos. We forget that 90% of the decision issues buyers must address before they get to the solution choice stage is based on creating an environment that will accept and adopt a new solution. The last thing they consider is making a purchase.</p>
<p>In my humble opinion :) without helping buyers manage their change -</p>
<ul>
<li>getting the right folks onto the <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=396110&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fsharondrewmorgen.com%2F2011%2F07%2Fwhos-in-the-meeting-and-whos-not%2F" target="_blank">Buying Decision Team</a>,</li>
<li>finding and listening to the voices of those who will ultimately touch the new solution,</li>
<li>making sure the old and new meld -</li>
</ul>
<p>we are not in integrity with our buyers, but merely serving our product sale.</p>
<p>Here is the question: are you willing to go outside of your sales thinking, and start considering <a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=396110&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.strategydriven.com%2F2010%2F07%2F20%2Fstrategydriven-podcast-episode-32-making-change-work-what-is-change-and-why-is-change-so-hard%2F" target="_blank">helping buyers manage</a> their behind-the-scenes, non-solution-related change management issues? It&#8217;s the Buying Facilitation® process, of course, and not sales. But between the two models, we can truly sell with integrity.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>Get a copy of <em><a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=396110&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.buyingfacilitation.com%2Fstore%2Fp%2F46-Dirty-Little-Secrets-Why-buyers-can-t-buy-and-sellers-can-t-sell-and-what-you-can-do-about-it.aspx" target="_blank">Dirty Little Secrets</a></em> and understand how buyers buy &#8211; and how you can help.</p>
<p><a href="http://click.icptrack.com/icp/relay.php?r=2557003&amp;msgid=396110&amp;act=NURA&amp;c=193273&amp;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.buyingfacilitation.com%2Fstore%2Fp%2F71-Audio-MP3s-Live-Training.aspx" target="_blank">Listen to Sharon Drew</a> make prospecting/qualifying calls using Buying Facilitation®.</p>
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		<title>Does the sales model do what we need it to do?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sales has been around since the Serpent convinced Eve to eat the apple. And, unfortunately, the goals have remained pretty much the same ever since.
The sales model was designed for a different time in history, when there were fewer decision makers and products could be easily described in a magazine ad. With the advent of [...]<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/03/does-the-sales-model-do-what-we-need-it-to-do/">Does the sales model do what we need it to do?</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><a rel="attachment wp-att-9394" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/03/does-the-sales-model-do-what-we-need-it-to-do/eve-and-the-snake/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9394" title="eve-and-the-snake" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/eve-and-the-snake-300x274.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="274" /></a></em>Sales has been around since the Serpent convinced Eve to eat the apple. And, unfortunately, the goals have remained pretty much the same ever since.</p>
<p>The sales model was designed for a different time in history, when there were fewer decision makers and products could be easily described in a magazine ad. With the advent of the web, global business practices, and the ability to communicate ideas across distances, there has been a sea change in not only what we can <a title="9 Ways to Get Your Brand Recognized" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/08/easy-ways-to-get-your-brand-recognized/">create and deliver</a>, but also in the process buyers must go through prior to being able to make a purchase. The sales model itself hasn&#8217;t kept up in important ways.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take a hard look at what sales is, and how it must shift to keep up with our global economy.</p>
<p><strong>WHAT IS SALES NOW?</strong></p>
<p>1. The sales model merely manages the needs assessment and solution placement end of the buyer&#8217;s decision path.</p>
<p>PROBLEM: The majority of the buying decision path occurs off line (buyers must know how to manage the change, get the right people to buy in, address the implementation issues, etc.) so we are merely catching the low hanging fruit &#8211; there when they are ready to buy.</p>
<p>IMPLICATIONS: We aren&#8217;t entering the buyer&#8217;s decision journey early enough to become part of the Buying Decision Team (i.e. helping navigate through decision issues and collapsing the sales cycle); we sit and wait while they do their internal change management, with no direct skills to enter that area of the buyer&#8217;s decision journey.</p>
<p>SOLUTION: Start your conversation by helping facilitate change right from the beginning and save the needs assessment/solution discussion until the prospect sees a path through to change (all can be done on the first call); take the role of a <a title="Change Management and Sales: Influencing the Buying Decision Path" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/06/change-management-and-sales-influencing-the-buying-decision-path/">buying facilitator</a> and decision facilitator; help the prospect become a buyer (or not) immediately.</p>
<p>2. Sales treats a &#8216;need&#8217; or &#8216;problem&#8221; as if it were an isolated event rather than recognizing that a &#8216;need&#8217; sits within a system: a set of rules and relationships that maintain the status quo (including their &#8216;pain&#8217;) daily. Until this entire system agrees to, and is made ready for, something new, no solution can be purchased.</p>
<p>PROBLEM: We end up focusing on one small aspect within a sea of issues, and then pushing/waiting/pushing/waiting until they get to the point they&#8217;re ready to buy, or missing ways to support the necessary change management issues.</p>
<p>IMPLICATIONS: We end up presenting possibly the wrong data, too early, to the wrong people, and waste our time following around folks who don&#8217;t buy.</p>
<p>SOLUTION: Buying is a <a title="Podcast: What is Change Management? Why is it so hard?" href="http://www.strategydriven.com/2010/07/20/strategydriven-podcast-episode-32-making-change-work-what-is-change-and-why-is-change-so-hard/">change management</a> problem. We can facilitate this with an additional skill set to help them facilitate change &#8211; right from the first call.</p>
<p>3. Sales focuses on understanding needs and placing solutions, but until or unless all of the people who need to be on the Buying Decision Team are on board, and until all of the change management issues are managed, buyers can&#8217;t make a purchase.</p>
<p>PROBLEM: We are entering too early, offering data they don&#8217;t know what to do with yet.</p>
<p>IMPLICATIONS: The time it takes buyers to come up with their own answers is the <a title="Where does the buy cycle start?" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/06/where-does-the-buy-cycle-start/">length of the sales cycle</a>. We end up following prospects who cannot close (and don’t know that until they don’t close) and don’t have a different skill set to open up prospects who didn’t know they need to buy, but are buyers. Plus we can shorten our sales cycles by at least half.</p>
<p>SOLUTION: With Buying Facilitation®  (a change management model that works alongside of sales) we can lead buyers through the decision steps, help them discern who must be on the Buying Decision Team, and become a member: we become neutral navigators rather than solution-placers.</p>
<p>4. We have assumed that if we can find a need, and our solution fits, that we have a sale. But if it were true, we&#8217;d be closing more, and sooner.</p>
<p>PROBLEM: Sales methods such as &#8216;objection handling&#8217; &#8216;closing&#8217; &#8216;getting past gatekeepers&#8217;, manage the fallout when buyers don&#8217;t buy according to the seller&#8217;s time frame. The problem is <a title="Video: Your Solution is Not Why Buyers Buy" href="http://www.youtube.com/user/sharondrew#p/u/9/M4WPxaiypZ4">not a solution choice problem</a>, but a buying decision/change management issue, and needs a different (i.e. non-sales) skill to manage that end of the path.</p>
<p>IMPLICATIONS: Because we don&#8217;t know who is a buyer until, well, until they buy, we waste over 90% of our time (and our company&#8217;s time) chasing prospects who don&#8217;t buy. And we can&#8217;t tell the difference until it&#8217;s too late.</p>
<p>SOLUTION: Using Buying Facilitation® you enter at the beginning of the path, and help buyers develop a pathway to handle the people, policies, relationship, and change issues necessary before they can buy. Once everyone is on board, and there is a path to a successful implementation, and everyone who will touch the solution is on board, THEN use sales &#8211; with no objections or delays.</p>
<p>Sales is vital. It manages the solution choice end of the buying path. It uncovers and supports needs. But it has no direct tools to do change management. We need to do more than sell. I believe the time has come to add a new skill to sales, and use Buying Facilitation® as part of your sales skills to truly help buyers buy. It is possible to eliminate objections, price issues, and closing issues, while greatly speeding up the sales cycle. Would you rather sell? or have someone buy?</p>
<p>sd</p>
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<p>Read samples of <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/ebooks/BuyingFacilitSample1.pdf">&#8220;Buying Facilitation: the new way to sell that influences and expands decisions&#8221;(PDF)</a> and <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/pdfs/DirtyLittleSecretsSample.pdf">&#8220;Dirty Little Secrets: why buyers can&#8217;t buy and sellers can&#8217;t sell and what you can do about it.&#8221; (PDF)</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/71-Audio-MP3s-Live-Training.aspx">Listen</a> to Sharon Drew discuss Buying Facilitation®.</p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Sales has been around since the Serpent convinced Eve to eat the apple. And, unfortunately, the goals have remained pretty much the same ever since. - The sales model was designed for a different time in history,</itunes:subtitle>
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The sales model was designed for a different time in history, when there were fewer decision makers ...</itunes:summary>
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		<title>When do buyers buy?</title>
		<link>http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/03/when-do-buyers-buy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Mar 2012 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your prospects need your solution. Desperately. But they are stalling. And it makes no sense.
But are they stalling? Are they really ignoring their needs, working with sub-optimal functionality, for a reason?
No. No. No. Yes. Not stalling, not ignoring their needs. Not working with sub-optimal functionality. Yes, there is a powerful reason.
Buyers can&#8217;t buy until all [...]<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/03/when-do-buyers-buy/">When do buyers buy?</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-9196" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/03/when-do-buyers-buy/attachment/78391775/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9196" title="Sundial" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/78391775-300x300.png" alt="Sundial" width="300" height="300" /></a>Your prospects need your solution. Desperately. But <a title="Why are Changees Resisting?" href="http://www.strategydriven.com/2010/08/26/strategydriven-podcast-episode-35-making-change-work-if-decisions-are-always-rational-why-are-changees-resisting/">they are stalling</a>. And it makes no sense.</p>
<p>But are they stalling? Are they really ignoring their needs, working with sub-optimal functionality, for a reason?</p>
<p>No. No. No. Yes. Not stalling, not ignoring their needs. Not working with sub-optimal functionality. Yes, there is a powerful reason.</p>
<p>Buyers can&#8217;t buy until all of the people, policies, market drivers, partners and historic choices that maintain their status quo have bought in to, and added their voices to, the changes that will result when they make a purchase. The time it takes them to manage this change is the length of the sales cycle. Your solution cannot be chosen until it&#8217;s <a title="9 Sales Steps" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/05/the-steps-of-a-sale-from-the-buying-decision-to-the-close/">all figured out</a>.</p>
<p>Buyers aren&#8217;t ignoring their needs. And they are <a title="Your Prospects Aren't In Pain" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/07/your-prospects-arent-in-pain/">not in pain</a>. In fact, they are operating relatively efficiently because they have developed some sort of a work-around that manages the problem well-enough. A new solution will create some sort of disruption, in and of itself, and therefore bring its own brand of sub-optimal functionality until the change is integrated.</p>
<p>Enough reasons?</p>
<p><strong>WHY AREN&#8217;T YOU BUYING?</strong></p>
<p>A question for you to ponder. From my vantage point, your selling skills offer you suboptimal results: it takes you far too long to close, you spend too much time running after non-viable prospects, and you&#8217;re only closing a fraction of the business you should be closing. It looks to me like you have a need that my solution can resolve.</p>
<p>I know that my solution will work in your situation, and make you far more effective. But you&#8217;d have to change &#8211; add to &#8211; what you are doing because the sales model has been your work-around . Therefore, you&#8217;d have to go through some sort of change management process internally before you&#8217;re ready to buy&#8230;. regardless of how well your need and my solution match: maintaining your status quo is a powerful deterrent to change, as you&#8217;ll note.</p>
<p>The <a title="Sales Model vs. Buyer Needs" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/01/the-buyers-buying-process-vs-the-sales-model-two-divergent-roads/">sales model does not manage</a> the behind-the-scenes change issues buyers must handle before they can buy. But using Buying Facilitation® as an additional skill you&#8217;ll have the ability to</p>
<ul>
<li>help buyers buy quicker as they manage their internal change issues,</li>
<li>find the best prospects on the first call,</li>
<li>get onto the Buying Decision Team on the first call,</li>
<li>avoid time wasting,</li>
<li>be able to forecast effectively &#8211; i.e. know who is closing and when,</li>
<li>become an integral part of the buyer&#8217;s change management activities,</li>
<li>increase your current closing rate significantly.</li>
</ul>
<p>The question is: how would you know when it was time to add a new skill set? or know in advance that new skills could make you more effective? or know in advance if it would be worth the time and effort?</p>
<p><strong>HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT&#8217;S WORTH THE TROUBLE TO CHANGE?</strong></p>
<p>Think of yourself as a potential buyer of sales tools that can enhance your success.</p>
<p>When do YOU decide that what you&#8217;re doing could be better? Are you stalling? Ignoring your needs to close more and make more money? Telling yourself that your status quo has worked &#8216;well enough&#8217; for years and you&#8217;re making &#8216;enough&#8217; money so why change? How do you decide when it&#8217;s time to change your status quo or add something new?</p>
<p>Note that your status quo &#8211; the way you sell, the way you&#8217;re paid, the way your company operates - is operating at some level of efficiency and comfort and hinders your desire to change. Note that it&#8217;s not about your need or my solution, that you would have to go through a series of decisions and get buy-in for you to change, separate from the initiating problem or potential solution.</p>
<p>What would you and your management need to know or believe differently to be ready, willing, and able, to add a new change management/decision facilitation capability to your current sales skills? To <a title="What is Buying Facilitation?" href="http://www.youtube.com/user/sharondrew#p/u/7/lErLxZuXSqM">learn Buying Facilitation®</a>?</p>
<p>Whatever thoughts you come up with, apply to your buyers. You&#8217;ll note that regardless of the need, the solution, the available data, or proof that a purchase is necessary, until or unless there is a path through to the change so that disruption is avoided, buyer&#8217;s won&#8217;t buy.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>Learn Buying Facilitation® with a <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/42-26-Week-Buying-Facilitation-Guided-Study-Coaching-Session.aspx">Guided Study program</a>, or a <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/speaking-topics/">corporate or public training</a> with Sharon Drew.</p>
<p>Start by <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/47-Bundle-Dirty-Little-Secrets-Buying-Facilitation-.aspx">reading these books</a> or listening to Sharon Drew&#8217;s tapes (<a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/71-Audio-MP3s-Live-Training.aspx">MP3</a>).</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Learn Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/" target="_blank">Learn Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/c/21-1-1-Coaching.aspx">Implement Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php">License Buying Facilitation</a><a title="License Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php?source=nav" target="_blank">®</a></p>
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		<title>12 Dirty Little Secrets: why buyers don&#8217;t buy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2012 13:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you sit and wait for your buyer's to close? They need your solution. They like you...<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/03/12-dirty-little-secrets-why-buyers-dont-buy/">12 Dirty Little Secrets: why buyers don&#8217;t buy</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-9612" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/03/12-dirty-little-secrets-why-buyers-dont-buy/secrets/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-9612" style="margin-right: 30px;" title="secrets" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/secrets.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="218" /></a>Do you sit and wait for your buyer&#8217;s to close? They need your solution. They like you. They are OK with the price. What&#8217;s going on?</p>
<p>Here are the &#8216;Dirty Little Secrets&#8217; of why buyers don&#8217;t buy, taken from my book of the same name:</p>
<ol>
<li>Sales focuses on solution placement and needs assessment, and has no skill set to help buyers maneuver through their off-line, personal, idiosyncratic, behind-the-scenes planning and decision making that must take place in their environment before they can buy.</li>
<li>Buyers will make no purchasing decisions <a href="http://www.strategydriven.com/2010/10/14/strategydriven-podcast-episode-37-making-change-work-why-is-buy-in-necessary-and-how-to-achieve-it/">until they get buy-in</a> from the components (people, policies, initiatives, groups) that are in any way connected to, or will touch, a solution to their ‘need.’</li>
<li>Until or unless there is buy-in, and the system is ready, willing, and able to buy-in to necessary change, buyers will not accept a solution no matter how great the need.</li>
<li>Buyers live in systems that operate, as all systems do, from the law of homeostasis, and thereby must resist if something new were to threaten disruption. To insure minimal internal disruption, buyers face internal <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/08/a-buying-decision-is-a-change-management-problem/">change management issues</a> as they bring in something new (a solution).</li>
<li>Until buyers understand and know how to mitigate the risks that a new solution will bring to their culture, they will do nothing. The system is sacrosanct; homeostasis is more important than fixing a need. New solutions can&#8217;t be purchased until a way is found to maintain internal balance. Includes internal politics and relationship issues.</li>
<li>Until all of the Buying Decision Team members have added their voices and fully defined the criteria that a solution must contain, buyers can&#8217;t make proper use of  solution information (i.e. pitch, presentation).</li>
<li>Sales, and the focus on solutions, enters the buyer’s decision path too early in a buyer&#8217;s decision cycle &#8211; usually before <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/07/whos-in-the-meeting-and-whos-not/">all of the Buying Decision Team</a> is on board and has added their specific needs to the solution criteria.</li>
<li>Helping buyers maneuver through their buy-in and systems issues require a different focus, and a different skill set, than the one sales offers. Buyers don&#8217;t buy using a seller&#8217;s selling patterns. And the sales model doesn&#8217;t have tools to influence non-solution-related decisions.</li>
<li>Buyers buy on unique, idiosyncratic criteria that are agreed to by their Buying Decision Team – not on the strength of their need, your product, or their relationship.</li>
<li>The <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/07/my-job-is-to-start-a-conversation/">type of relationship a seller has</a> with customers/prospects is a buying feature only once the buyer has determine how, when, why, and if they are going to buy.</li>
<li>Buyers seek a solution only after they manage their internal systems issues. Part of their decision/choice is the assurance that the new solution will maintain the ecology of the system.</li>
<li>At the start, buyers don’t know all the issues they need to manage as they begin the process of resolving a problem and choosing a solution.</li>
</ol>
<p>Your current sales skills do a great job understanding need and placing solutions. But they don&#8217;t work with the behind-the-scenes non-solution-related change management issues buyers go through privately.</p>
<p>How will you shift your skills to help buyers manage their buying decision issues?</p>
<p>If you want to help buyers facilitate their off-line, behind-the-skills decision issues, you may want to <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/sharondrew#p/u/7/lErLxZuXSqM">learn Buying Facilitation®</a> &#8211; a set of change management/decision facilitation skills that are wholly different from (but work in tandem with) sales skills, designed to help buyers navigate through their decision path <em>as they prepare</em> to choose a solution. It speeds up their change management process: we sit and wait while they do it anyway.</p>
<p>Add Buying Facilitation® to your sales skills as a facilitation tool, and decrease your sales cycle, find the right prospects to spend time on, and close more sales. Here are some sample chapters to give you more data: <em><a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/pdfs/DirtyLittleSecretsSample.pdf">Dirty Little Secrets: why buyers can&#8217;t buy and sellers can&#8217;t sell and what you can do about it</a> </em>and <em><a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/ebooks/BuyingFacilitSample1.pdf">Buying Facilitation®: the new way to sell that influences and expands decisions</a>.</em></p>
<p>In today&#8217;s business climate, decisions to buy are far more complex than they&#8217;ve been in the past, and your selling skills aren&#8217;t enough. What would you need to know or believe differently to be willing to add a new skill set to enhance your success?</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>Join Sharon Drew Morgen on September 13th for a <a href="http://www.marketingpipeline.co.uk/webinar-13-september/">FREE online webinar</a> about understanding Buying Facilitation®.</p>
<p>To learn how to create the sort of dialogue that supports your client interactions, take a look at <a href="http://dirtylittlesecretsbook.com/">Dirty Little Secrets</a>. It&#8217;s more about the collaborative communication than being &#8216;right&#8217; or &#8216;wrong&#8217;.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Learn Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/" target="_blank">Learn Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/c/21-1-1-Coaching.aspx">Implement Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php">License Buying Facilitation</a><a title="License Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php?source=nav" target="_blank">®</a></p>
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		<title>Solution Selection: do we know how buyers choose one solution over another?</title>
		<link>http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/03/solution-selection-how-do-buyers-choose-one-solution-over-another/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2012 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your solution matches the buyer&#8217;s need perfectly. You like them, they like you, you&#8217;ve had coffee/a meal/a powerful meeting or two. They talk about implementation and how they need to add your other product next year. And then they buy from someone else. Or not at all.
What happened? Are they stupid? Did they lie to [...]<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/03/solution-selection-how-do-buyers-choose-one-solution-over-another/">Solution Selection: do we know how buyers choose one solution over another?</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-9303" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/03/solution-selection-how-do-buyers-choose-one-solution-over-another/choice-arrows-2/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9303" title="Choice Arrows" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/Choice-Arrows1-224x300.jpg" alt="" width="179" height="240" /></a>Your solution matches the buyer&#8217;s need perfectly. You like them, they like you, you&#8217;ve had coffee/a meal/a powerful meeting or two. They talk about implementation and how they need to <a title="When Do Buyers Buy?" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/08/when-do-buyers-buy/">add your other product next year</a>. And then they buy from someone else. Or not at all.</p>
<p>What happened? Are they stupid? Did they lie to you? Are they making an emotional decision?</p>
<p>Not stupid. Didn&#8217;t lie. No emtional decision making. Maybe the need shifted, or the two new members of the Buying Decision Team added buying criteria, or they were able to get a partial solution from a current vendor.</p>
<p>But most likely, it just took them quite a while to recognize all of the folks who <a title="Who's in the meeting, and who's not?" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/07/whos-in-the-meeting-and-whos-not/">needed to be on the Buying Decision Team</a> and once they were all on board, the criteria for choosing a solution shifted.</p>
<p>Whatever the truth is, we&#8217;ll never know how buyers choose one solution over another so long as we&#8217;re using the sales model alone. Without adding some Buying Facilitation® components, sellers have a tough time becoming part of the change management process that buyers must manage to not only implement the solution, but actually define their criteria for selection.</p>
<p><strong>BUYING CRITERIA</strong></p>
<p>Here are some criteria buyers will need to figure out as they move through their solution selection process:</p>
<ul>
<li>have all people who will touch the solution defined their criteria for what they achieve from a new solution?</li>
<li>do they know how they will implement the solution and ensure the new and old will work together?</li>
<li>how will they prioritize the timing and resource for bringing in a new solution?</li>
<li>how will a new solution effect their job description, their relationships, their daily responsibilities and activies?</li>
</ul>
<p>Generally, when we meet a prospect, they haven&#8217;t figured out all of the above because all of the right people aren&#8217;t on board yet to lend their voices to what a solution would need to be for their jobs. Until they do, they can&#8217;t buy &#8211; regardless of how well our solution matches the need they discuss with us.</p>
<p><em>The choice of the actual solution is the very last thing the buyer does</em>: until or unless there is appropriate buy-in and everyone who touches the new solution knows how to implement, and all change management criteria have been met, and everyone on the Buying Decision Team has similar buying criteria, <a title="Why Sales Fail - Video" href="http://www.youtube.com/user/sharondrew#p/u/3/x8BxhUzK-r4">they won&#8217;t buy</a> &#8211; regardless of how friendly you are, or how well your solution meshes with their need.</p>
<p>Think about making a purchase yourself. Well before you hand over your money, you&#8217;ve had to make internal decisions. Do you need X right now? Do you need to do Y first? How will your family be involved? How will your behaviors change &#8211; and how much change are you willing to take on? Do you wait until a new version comes out?  Do you need to have a handover or integration or learning curve between the old and new&#8230; and how will that get done? When do you have the time to research, change, discuss? Who do you want to get ideas/input from?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not about the solution &#8211; until it is.</p>
<p>How do you plan on helping your prospects think through all of the <a title="What are Systems and How Do They influence Change?" href="http://www.strategydriven.com/2010/07/29/strategydriven-podcast-episode-33-making-change-work-what-are-systems-and-how-to-they-influence-change/">issues they&#8217;ll need to manage</a> prior to being able to use your solution? How will you enter the conversation once you realize that a prospect&#8217;s need and your solution are the last things you discuss?</p>
<p>Buying Facilitation® will help you enter the conversation to help buyers uncover their approach to being excellent. After all, if they have no road map to thinking it all through, it will end up being a long, messy process that will seriously bias the timing of the purchase. But you can help guide them through all of the ins and outs of making the necessary decisions and getting the right people on board.</p>
<p>Yes, it&#8217;s a different skill and focus than just using sales alone. But would you rather sell? <a title="Would you rather make a sale or an appointment?" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/07/do-you-want-to-make-a-sale-or-an-appointment/">or have someone buy</a>?</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>Listen to Sharon Drew use Buying Facilitation®: <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/71-Audio-MP3s-Live-Training.aspx">MP3</a></p>
<p>Read <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/pdfs/DirtyLittleSecretsSample.pdf">sample chapters</a> of Dirty Little Secrets so you can understand the buying decision process.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Learn Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/" target="_blank">Learn Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/c/21-1-1-Coaching.aspx">Implement Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php">License Buying Facilitation</a><a title="License Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php?source=nav" target="_blank">®</a></p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Your solution matches the buyer&#039;s need perfectly. You like them, they like you, you&#039;ve had coffee/a meal/a powerful meeting or two. They talk about implementation and how they need to add your other product next year. And then they buy from someone else.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Your solution matches the buyer&#039;s need perfectly. You like them, they like you, you&#039;ve had coffee/a meal/a powerful meeting or two. They talk about implementation and how they need to add your other product next year. And then they buy from someone else. Or not at all.

What happened? Are they stupid? Did they lie to you? Are they making an emotional decision?

Not stupid. Didn&#039;t lie. No emtional decision making. Maybe the need shifted, or the two new members of the Buying Decision Team added buying criteria, or they were able to get a partial solution from a current vendor.

But most likely, it just took them quite a while to recognize all of the folks who needed to be on the Buying Decision Team and once they were all on board, the criteria for choosing a solution shifted.

Whatever the truth is, we&#039;ll never know how buyers choose one solution over another so long as we&#039;re using the sales model alone. Without adding some Buying Facilitation® components, sellers have a tough time becoming part of the change management process that buyers must manage to not only implement the solution, but actually define their criteria for selection.

BUYING CRITERIA

Here are some criteria buyers will need to figure out as they move through their solution selection process:

	have all people who will touch the solution defined their criteria for what they achieve from a new solution?
	do they know how they will implement the solution and ensure the new and old will work together?
	how will they prioritize the timing and resource for bringing in a new solution?
	how will a new solution effect their job description, their relationships, their daily responsibilities and activies?

Generally, when we meet a prospect, they haven&#039;t figured out all of the above because all of the right people aren&#039;t on board yet to lend their voices to what a solution would need to be for their jobs. Until they do, they can&#039;t buy - regardless of how well our solution matches the need they discuss with us.

The choice of the actual solution is the very last thing the buyer does: until or unless there is appropriate buy-in and everyone who touches the new solution knows how to implement, and all change management criteria have been met, and everyone on the Buying Decision Team has similar buying criteria, they won&#039;t buy - regardless of how friendly you are, or how well your solution meshes with their need.

Think about making a purchase yourself. Well before you hand over your money, you&#039;ve had to make internal decisions. Do you need X right now? Do you need to do Y first? How will your family be involved? How will your behaviors change - and how much change are you willing to take on? Do you wait until a new version comes out?  Do you need to have a handover or integration or learning curve between the old and new... and how will that get done? When do you have the time to research, change, discuss? Who do you want to get ideas/input from?

It&#039;s not about the solution - until it is.

How do you plan on helping your prospects think through all of the issues they&#039;ll need to manage prior to being able to use your solution? How will you enter the conversation once you realize that a prospect&#039;s need and your solution are the last things you discuss?

Buying Facilitation® will help you enter the conversation to help buyers uncover their approach to being excellent. After all, if they have no road map to thinking it all through, it will end up being a long, messy process that will seriously bias the timing of the purchase. But you can help guide them through all of the ins and outs of making the necessary decisions and getting the right people on board.

Yes, it&#039;s a different skill and focus than just using sales alone. But would you rather sell? or have someone buy?

sd

Listen to Sharon Drew use Buying Facilitation®: MP3

Read sample chapters of Dirty Little Secrets so you can understand the buying decision process.
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		<title>Why Aren&#8217;t Our Prospects Buying: the problem sales can&#8217;t solve</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 14:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You’ve done your homework. You’ve found the right buyers – prospects with needs you can fulfill and can afford your solution. You’ve nurtured them, contacted them, met with them, scored them, pitched them, networked with them, sent them gifts. But only a small fraction buy.
Where do they go?
Industry lore believes that 80% of your prospects will purchase [...]<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/02/why-arent-our-prospects-buying/">Why Aren&#8217;t Our Prospects Buying: the problem sales can&#8217;t solve</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-7079" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/02/why-arent-our-prospects-buying/going-out-of-business/"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-7079" title="going out of business" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/going-out-of-business-250x187.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="187" /></a>You’ve done your homework. You’ve found the right buyers – prospects with needs you can fulfill and can afford your solution. You’ve nurtured them, contacted them, met with them, scored them, pitched them, networked with them, sent them gifts. But only a small fraction buy.</p>
<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/06/facilitating-the-buyers-journey-a-definition/">Where do they go?</a></p>
<p>Industry lore believes that 80% of your prospects will purchase a solution similar to yours within two years of your relationship with them – but not from you (and they leave behind a trail of dead sales people in the meantime). Why aren’t those 80% buying from you now?</p>
<h3><strong>WHEN DO BUYERS BUY – AND WHAT TAKES THEM SO LONG?</strong></h3>
<p>Buyers don&#8217;t buy because they can&#8217;t buy. The ramifications of a purchase</p>
<ul>
<li>made at the wrong time,</li>
<li>involving an insufficient number of stakeholders,</li>
<li>with only a fraction of the ultimate Buying Decision Team on board,</li>
<li>with no clear idea of how the status quo will be effected,</li>
<li>without all of those who touch the solution in agreement,</li>
</ul>
<p>are too big to risk disruption if not managed prior to the purchase.</p>
<p>The status quo has worked well-enough until now, and your solution would be disruptive if the above issues weren&#8217;t in agreement with change.</p>
<ul>
<li>Buyers buy when their entire <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/tag/buying-decision-team/">Buying Decision Team</a> is on board and has offered their voice and buying criteria, and has bought-in to managing whatever change a new solution will demand.</li>
<li>Buyers buy when the folks who touch the solution know how the changes will effect their people and policies, relationships and internal politics.</li>
<li>Buyers buy when they know their current, beloved vendors cannot meet their needs and the new solution will fit somehow with the existing technology or systems.</li>
<li>Buyers buy when everyone involved decides it&#8217;s time to resolve a business problem.</li>
</ul>
<p>They don&#8217;t buy because they are in love with your solution.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Until or unless buyers are able to recognize and manage all of the change management issues they will face when bringing in a new solution, they will do nothing.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>And the sales model &#8211; regardless of the way you sell &#8211; does nothing to help buyers navigate their internal, private, and very confusing journey towards buy-in.</p>
<p>The problem with sales is that it treats an <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/06/why-sales-fail-3/">Identified Problem</a> (or need) as if it were an isolated event. It’s not. The &#8216;need&#8217; sits within a system that has not only created it, but holds it in place daily. Attempting to resolve this ‘need’ without managing the change issues involved in a solution would cause disruption that the status quo will not tolerate. And here is where you lose your prospects.</p>
<h3><strong>A PURCHASE IS A CHANGE MANAGEMENT PROBLEM</strong></h3>
<p>We recognize needs, do needs assessment, and place solutions. But sales does not help buyers manage the non-solution, back-end issues they must address at the back-end.</p>
<p>It’s here we lose our sales. A purchase is a change management problem, after all. And until or unless buyers manage their change issues and ensure that the people and policies, relationships and internal politics, are ready, willing and able to change, they will do nothing. And that&#8217;s when they show up two years later as buyers &#8211; it has taken them that long to manage the internal buy-in.</p>
<p>The sales model only manages the last 10% that buyers do: choose a vendor and a solution. And the push back we get is because we are pushing a solution into a currently balanced system that will fight to maintain homeostasis.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/">Add Buying Facilitation®</a> to the front end of your sales process, and you will start at the beginning of the buyer’s journey. It’s a different skill set – more like being a GPS system or navigation model that is systems based. <em>But you’re either going to sit and wait for buyers to do this, or use new skills to enter the buying journey earlier.</em></p>
<p>Until now, you’ve been losing prospects to their buy-in issues. But you no longer need to. Avoid time delays in the buying decision. Help buyers choose you in 1/8 the time &#8211; really &#8211; and be automatically differentiated. Help your buyers understand how to manage their change &#8211; on the first call - and turn &#8216;names&#8217; into real prospects, and avoid wasting time following folks who will never buy.</p>
<p>Would you rather sell? Or have someone buy.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>Learn more about Buying Facilitation® either via <a href="http://buyingfaciliation.com">http://buyingfaciliation.com</a> or by reading samples of my two latest books: <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/ebooks/BuyingFacilitSample1.pdf"><em>Buying Facilitation</em>®<em>: the new way to sell that expands and influences thinking</em></a> and <a href="http://dirtylittlesecretsbook.com/buy.html"><em>Dirty Little Secrets: why buyers can&#8217;t buy and sellers can&#8217;t sell and what you can do about it</em></a>.</p>
<p><a title="Learn Buying Facilitation™" href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/" target="_blank">Learn Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a title="Implement Buying Facilitation™" href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/learning/" target="_blank">Implement Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a title="License Buying Facilitation™" href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php" target="_blank">License Buying Facilitation®</a></p>
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			<itunes:keywords>buyers,buying decision,buying facilitation,Buying Facilitation™,change management,lead nurturing,networking,prospects,sales cycle</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:subtitle>You’ve done your homework. You’ve found the right buyers – prospects with needs you can fulfill and can afford your solution. You’ve nurtured them, contacted them, met with them, scored them, pitched them, networked with them, sent them gifts.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>You’ve done your homework. You’ve found the right buyers – prospects with needs you can fulfill and can afford your solution. You’ve nurtured them, contacted them, met with them, scored them, pitched them, networked with them, sent them gifts. But only a small fraction buy.

Where do they go?

Industry lore believes that 80% of your prospects will purchase a solution similar to yours within two years of your relationship with them – but not from you (and they leave behind a trail of dead sales people in the meantime). Why aren’t those 80% buying from you now?
WHEN DO BUYERS BUY – AND WHAT TAKES THEM SO LONG?
Buyers don&#039;t buy because they can&#039;t buy. The ramifications of a purchase

	made at the wrong time,
	involving an insufficient number of stakeholders,
	with only a fraction of the ultimate Buying Decision Team on board,
	with no clear idea of how the status quo will be effected,
	without all of those who touch the solution in agreement,

are too big to risk disruption if not managed prior to the purchase.

The status quo has worked well-enough until now, and your solution would be disruptive if the above issues weren&#039;t in agreement with change.

	Buyers buy when their entire Buying Decision Team is on board and has offered their voice and buying criteria, and has bought-in to managing whatever change a new solution will demand.
	Buyers buy when the folks who touch the solution know how the changes will effect their people and policies, relationships and internal politics.
	Buyers buy when they know their current, beloved vendors cannot meet their needs and the new solution will fit somehow with the existing technology or systems.
	Buyers buy when everyone involved decides it&#039;s time to resolve a business problem.

They don&#039;t buy because they are in love with your solution.
Until or unless buyers are able to recognize and manage all of the change management issues they will face when bringing in a new solution, they will do nothing.
And the sales model - regardless of the way you sell - does nothing to help buyers navigate their internal, private, and very confusing journey towards buy-in.

The problem with sales is that it treats an Identified Problem (or need) as if it were an isolated event. It’s not. The &#039;need&#039; sits within a system that has not only created it, but holds it in place daily. Attempting to resolve this ‘need’ without managing the change issues involved in a solution would cause disruption that the status quo will not tolerate. And here is where you lose your prospects.
A PURCHASE IS A CHANGE MANAGEMENT PROBLEM
We recognize needs, do needs assessment, and place solutions. But sales does not help buyers manage the non-solution, back-end issues they must address at the back-end.

It’s here we lose our sales. A purchase is a change management problem, after all. And until or unless buyers manage their change issues and ensure that the people and policies, relationships and internal politics, are ready, willing and able to change, they will do nothing. And that&#039;s when they show up two years later as buyers - it has taken them that long to manage the internal buy-in.

The sales model only manages the last 10% that buyers do: choose a vendor and a solution. And the push back we get is because we are pushing a solution into a currently balanced system that will fight to maintain homeostasis.

Add Buying Facilitation® to the front end of your sales process, and you will start at the beginning of the buyer’s journey. It’s a different skill set – more like being a GPS system or navigation model that is systems based. But you’re either going to sit and wait for buyers to do this, or use new skills to enter the buying journey earlier.

Until now, you’ve been losing prospects to their buy-in issues. But you no longer need to. Avoid time delays in the buying decision. Help buyers choose you in 1/8 the time - really - and be automatically differentiated.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Do you really understand how your buyers buy?</title>
		<link>http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/01/do-you-really-understand-how-your-buyers-buy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 14:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For decades, salespeople scrunched their faces when I mentioned &#8220;how buyers buy&#8221;. I heard comments like: &#8220;I know what they need.&#8221; or &#8220;I understand exactly how they buy: price, price, price.&#8221;
But sellers only close 7%  of their prospects (and far, far less if using marketing automation).
If you understand how buyers buy, why do you have less than a 40% [...]<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/01/do-you-really-understand-how-your-buyers-buy/">Do you really understand how your buyers buy?</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-9496" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/01/do-you-really-understand-how-your-buyers-buy/more-sales-chart/"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-9496" title="more-sales-chart" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/more-sales-chart-250x207.jpg" alt="You can make more sales." width="250" height="207" /></a>For decades, salespeople scrunched their faces when I mentioned &#8220;how buyers buy&#8221;. I heard comments like: &#8220;I know what they need.&#8221; or &#8220;I understand exactly how they buy: <a title="Money is Never the Real Objection" href="http://www.youtube.com/user/sharondrew#p/u/17/g9tf0m885Fg">price, price, price</a>.&#8221;</p>
<p>But sellers only close 7%  of their prospects (and far, far less if using marketing automation).</p>
<p>If you understand how buyers buy, why do you have less than a 40% close rate?</p>
<p>Indeed, it&#8217;s not enough to understand: so long as you are using the conventional sales model (and bas your interactions on placing a solution) you have no idea how your buyers travel through their buy path or who is involved. And you certainly have no way of influencing it.</p>
<p><strong>MAKE YOURSELF THE BUYER</strong></p>
<p>Let&#8217;s say you&#8217;re not closing all of the sales you deserve to close. You follow many prospects and are surprised at which ones finally buy and which ones disappear. You constantly shift the dates on your pipeline because the buyers didn&#8217;t close when they said they would. Things &#8216;happen&#8217;: the buyer&#8217;s company is going through X, or Y decision maker is now involved, or the old vendor has shown up&#8230;. always &#8216;something&#8217;  kinda dumb, when their need obviously fits your solution.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re suffering the same issues all sellers face: waiting, waiting, waiting for the purchase. From where you sit, it should happen any day. From where you sit, you know what&#8217;s going on: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/07/my-job-is-to-start-a-conversation/">you know the players</a>, you know the old vendor and old technology, you are best friends with the buyer, you&#8217;ve agreed on price, and everyone is bought in.</p>
<p>Or is that all true.</p>
<p>From where I sit here&#8217;s what I see:</p>
<ul>
<li>you don&#8217;t know on the first call who is going to buy and who will never buy;</li>
<li>on the first call you haven&#8217;t taught your buyer how to put together the <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/07/whos-in-the-meeting-and-whos-not/">full Buying Decision Team</a> or help him/her discover everyone who will touch the solution and helping them buy-in to change;</li>
<li>you&#8217;re not closing all of the sales you deserve to close;</li>
<li>you actually have no way of knowing if the right folks are on board at any point in the buying decision cycle;</li>
<li>your sales cycle is at least 50% longer than it needs to be;</li>
<li>you are not closing half of the sales you should be closing, or finding the right prospects, or spending too much time chasing prospects who will never close;</li>
<li>you are entering the buying decision too early and attempting to place a solution before they have the proper buy-in to make a purchase, or even know the full data set of purchasing criteria.</li>
</ul>
<p>From where I sit, you have a need for my solution. You have a need to add Buying Facilitation® to what you&#8217;re already doing, so you can manage the upfront change management piece buyers must go through prior to making a purchase, close at least 40% more sales, and close in 1/2 the time. You&#8217;re a prospect. You have all of the problems that my buyers exhibit and need my solution.</p>
<p>So your need and my solution fit. Does that make you a buyer?</p>
<p>You have budget constraints. You don&#8217;t know how Buying Facilitation® would fit as an addition to your current sales skills. You don&#8217;t have the time/money/management support to make a change. Your sales manager is concentrating on, oh.. say Closing Skills or Negotiating Techniques, and doesn&#8217;t have the bandwidth to allow you to sell differently from the others. But I don&#8217;t  understand how you buy.</p>
<p><strong>THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SELLING AND HELPING SOMEONE BUY</strong></p>
<p>I am an outsider. The difference between what I, or anyone, can know as an outsider, and what the insiders must do/know to manage their internal politics, or get all the right people onto the Buying Decision Team, is the difference between your need, your change issues, and my solution.</p>
<p>The difference between what you need and how/when/if you buy is the distance between how you consider/seek Excellence, and how you envisage your status quo, and what you need to manage to <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/08/a-buying-decision-is-a-change-management-problem/">be ready to make a change</a>.</p>
<p>Do you have a manager that has created a selling environment based on his own sales skills and wants his team to replicate his success of long ago? Does the CEO not want to spend money &#8211; regardless of the training funds sitting in your budget (making the CEO the gatekeeper)? Does HQ want all training to come from them? Is there a training roll out happening now and there is no way you can learn anything new until the roll out is complete?</p>
<p>I might understand your need, and I might even know everyone on your Buying Decision Team (but I probably don&#8217;t): but your buying decision issues must match the internal, idiosyncratic, unique, and personal issues that make up your status quo, and I can never, ever understand the politics, or relationships.</p>
<p>Stop trying to undertand. Instead, learn Buying Facilitation®. Add it to the front end of your selling skills. Learn to <a title="Podcast: Stop Pitching Your Services" href="http://www.raintoday.com/pages/5573_podcast_episode_44_stop_pitching_your_services_and_facilitate_the_buying_decision.cfm">lead your buyers</a> through their entire series of change management issues so they can avoid all of the delays you&#8217;re watching them go through. Then you can find more, close more, close faster, and stop wasting time. And you&#8217;ll know who will close, and when.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>Learn Buying Facilitation® as a <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/42-26-Week-Buying-Facilitation-Guided-Study-Coaching-Session.aspx">Self Study program</a>.</p>
<p>Read <em><a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/46-Dirty-Little-Secrets-Why-buyers-can-t-buy-and-sellers-can-t-sell-and-what-you-can-do-about-it.aspx">Dirty Little Secrets: why buyers can&#8217;t buy and sellers can&#8217;t sell and what you can do about it</a></em> to really understand how buyers buy.</p>
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<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/01/do-you-really-understand-how-your-buyers-buy/">Do you really understand how your buyers buy?</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 14:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Would you buy a house without discussing it with your wife or family? Would you even know all of the buying criteria without their input?
Would you bring in a leadership training without getting the buy-in from the people who would be trained? Or know their criteria without their voices?
Would you choose a web designer without [...]<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/01/the-buying-decision-team/">Help Buyers Choose the Buying Decision Team: a case study</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" title="Buying Decision Team" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Business_Presentation_Training.gif" alt="Buying Decision Team" width="190" height="150" />Would you buy a house without discussing it with your wife or family? Would you even know all of the buying criteria without their input?</p>
<p>Would you bring in a leadership training without getting the buy-in from the people who would be trained? Or know their criteria without their voices?</p>
<p>Would you choose a web designer without getting the buy-in from the current design team and the techies? Would you know what they would want included until they offered their opinions or knew what parts they wanted to do themselves?</p>
<p>Why not?</p>
<p>I recently had a <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/coaching.php">coaching call</a> with a SVP at a well-known CRM Management company. The man had a Harvard MBA, had been a partner at Accenture, and now was running the Texas sales operation for this CRM company. This is not a stupid man, obviously, but a man steeped in the &#8216;sales&#8217; thinking modality.</p>
<p>During his session he wanted to put together a set of <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/learning/features.php">Facilitative Questions</a> that would help his prospect (a hardware company with a sales force of 1500) buy his solution during his &#8216;big meeting&#8217; that he finally got. Who was going to be in the meeting? I asked.</p>
<blockquote><p>SS: There will be 10 people there: the head of sales and her team, and the head of marketing and her team.</p>
<p>SDM: So you&#8217;ve got 2 people.</p>
<p>SS: No! Ten! And it took me 2 months and 3 meetings with the head of sales to have her set up this meeting.</p>
<p>SDM: But there are only 2 members of the Buying Decision Team who will be present. Who else would need to be on the Buying Decision Team?</p>
<p>SS: Well, the head of technology, obviously, but he&#8217;s on board. He loves our solution. Besides, he&#8217;s only an influencer.</p>
<p>SDM:  So if he doesn&#8217;t want a CRM system, the company will ignore him?</p>
<p>SS: No. They wouldn&#8217;t buy. I guess that makes him a decision maker.</p>
<p>SDM:  And  there won&#8217;t be a problem with him working together with the heads of sales and marketing? They have no relationship issues?</p>
<p>SS: Oh. I guess I wouldn&#8217;t want to be there while they decided on stuff together. Hm. Who else do they have to get on their Buying Decision Team?</p>
<p>SDM: Not only do you not know, but they don&#8217;t know yet either. Let&#8217;s start with users. There must be user groups with 15oo sales people.</p>
<p>SS: There are 6 user groups. I guess we&#8217;d need their buy in.</p>
<p>SDM: I&#8217;m curious about the tech group. Your solution has a complicated implementation process and takes quite a bit of collaboration with the in-house folks. Does the tech team know they will need to free up folks for the implementation? Or are they going to outsource all of this? Or some combination?</p>
<p>SS: I have no way of knowing that.</p>
<p>SDM: That&#8217;s correct. And neither do they. And until they figure that out, they cannot buy your solution. In fact<span style="text-decoration: underline;">, until they have the entire Buying Decision Team on board, they can&#8217;t buy.</span> There are too many <span style="text-decoration: underline;">people</span> who need to have a voice, too many <span style="text-decoration: underline;">unknown decisions</span> to make, too many <span style="text-decoration: underline;">buying and implementation criteria</span> to take into account. And you can&#8217;t understand any of this &#8211; or be directly involved in doing it for the prospect. But you can lead them through their decisions so they have a path to follow. Otherwise you can wait until they figure it out themselves.</p>
<p>SS: So this meeting tomorrow is too early, with too few of the Buying Decision Team members, and giving them a big presentation right now is wasting my time and theirs because we don&#8217;t have all of the right people and they don&#8217;t have all of their buying criteria. This is why my sales take years to close. What do I do tomorrow? I bet you&#8217;re going to tell me not to make a presentation.</p>
<p>SDM: Let&#8217;s put together a list of Facilitative Questions that will help them figure out how to manage all of the issues we just discussed. And, at the end, if they still want a bit of your presentation, it&#8217;s fine. So long as you understand that their needs might change once all of the Buying Decision Team members have a say in the outcome. Obviously the tech folks will have different purchasing criteria than the sales folks, and the users won&#8217;t want anything new. And now, no one knows any of this.</p></blockquote>
<p>Until or unless all of the members of the Buying Decision Team are on board, the buyer can not know their full set of buying criteria &#8211; or even the full definition of their need. When sellers go in and first attempt to &#8216;understand need&#8217; or even &#8216;know who is on the Buying Decision Team [useless data as an outsider is not an influencer on the Team]&#8216; or offer solution data, they are wasting a lot of time and delaying the buying decision.</p>
<p>Facilitate buy-in, manage change, and help gather the correct Buying Decision Team members first. Then help them all figure out their buying, buy-in, and change criteria. And THEN you can focus on the need and your solution. And close a lot more sales a whole lot faster.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p><a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/ebooks/BuyingFacilitSample1.pdf">Read sample chapters</a> of <em><a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/products/books/bf.php">Buying Facilitation®: the new way to sell that influences and expands decisions</a>. </em>This book is a very clear discussion of what Buying Facilitation® is and does. It&#8217;s tactical; my book <a href="http://dirtylittlesecretsbook.com/"><em>Dirty Little Secrets: why buyers can&#8217;t buy and sellers can&#8217;t sell and what you can do about it</em></a> is strategic. You can get them both in a bundle with an additional illustrated booklet in a bundle at <a href="http://buyingfacilitation.com/store/AddToCart.aspx?ItemID=47&amp;Quantity=1">www.buyingfacilitation.com</a></p>
<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2012/01/the-buying-decision-team/">Help Buyers Choose the Buying Decision Team: a case study</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Would you buy a house without discussing it with your wife or family? Would you even know all of the buying criteria without their input? - Would you bring in a leadership training without getting the buy-in from the people who would be trained?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Would you buy a house without discussing it with your wife or family? Would you even know all of the buying criteria without their input?

Would you bring in a leadership training without getting the buy-in from the people who would be trained? Or know their criteria without their voices?

Would you choose a web designer without getting the buy-in from the current design team and the techies? Would you know what they would want included until they offered their opinions or knew what parts they wanted to do themselves?

Why not?

I recently had a coaching call with a SVP at a well-known CRM Management company. The man had a Harvard MBA, had been a partner at Accenture, and now was running the Texas sales operation for this CRM company. This is not a stupid man, obviously, but a man steeped in the &#039;sales&#039; thinking modality.

During his session he wanted to put together a set of Facilitative Questions that would help his prospect (a hardware company with a sales force of 1500) buy his solution during his &#039;big meeting&#039; that he finally got. Who was going to be in the meeting? I asked.
SS: There will be 10 people there: the head of sales and her team, and the head of marketing and her team.

SDM: So you&#039;ve got 2 people.

SS: No! Ten! And it took me 2 months and 3 meetings with the head of sales to have her set up this meeting.

SDM: But there are only 2 members of the Buying Decision Team who will be present. Who else would need to be on the Buying Decision Team?

SS: Well, the head of technology, obviously, but he&#039;s on board. He loves our solution. Besides, he&#039;s only an influencer.

SDM:  So if he doesn&#039;t want a CRM system, the company will ignore him?

SS: No. They wouldn&#039;t buy. I guess that makes him a decision maker.

SDM:  And  there won&#039;t be a problem with him working together with the heads of sales and marketing? They have no relationship issues?

SS: Oh. I guess I wouldn&#039;t want to be there while they decided on stuff together. Hm. Who else do they have to get on their Buying Decision Team?

SDM: Not only do you not know, but they don&#039;t know yet either. Let&#039;s start with users. There must be user groups with 15oo sales people.

SS: There are 6 user groups. I guess we&#039;d need their buy in.

SDM: I&#039;m curious about the tech group. Your solution has a complicated implementation process and takes quite a bit of collaboration with the in-house folks. Does the tech team know they will need to free up folks for the implementation? Or are they going to outsource all of this? Or some combination?

SS: I have no way of knowing that.

SDM: That&#039;s correct. And neither do they. And until they figure that out, they cannot buy your solution. In fact, until they have the entire Buying Decision Team on board, they can&#039;t buy. There are too many people who need to have a voice, too many unknown decisions to make, too many buying and implementation criteria to take into account. And you can&#039;t understand any of this - or be directly involved in doing it for the prospect. But you can lead them through their decisions so they have a path to follow. Otherwise you can wait until they figure it out themselves.

SS: So this meeting tomorrow is too early, with too few of the Buying Decision Team members, and giving them a big presentation right now is wasting my time and theirs because we don&#039;t have all of the right people and they don&#039;t have all of their buying criteria. This is why my sales take years to close. What do I do tomorrow? I bet you&#039;re going to tell me not to make a presentation.

SDM: Let&#039;s put together a list of Facilitative Questions that will help them figure out how to manage all of the issues we just discussed. And, at the end, if they still want a bit of your presentation, it&#039;s fine. So long as you understand that their needs might change once all of the Buying Decision Team members have a say in the outcome. Obviously the tech folks will have different purchasing criteria than the sales folks,</itunes:summary>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 13:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Around 85% of a buyer&#8217;s pre-purchase, back-end decision issues get addressed privately, outside of the seller&#8217;s purview, and a seller has no place at the table. Here is where we lose our sales &#8211; as buyers manage the internal politics, and the strategic/change issues &#8211; not because our solutions aren&#8217;t relevant or because we haven&#8217;t done a good job selling.
The [...]<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/12/the-buying-journey-vs-the-sales-process-the-buyer-is-not-sitting-and-waiting-for-the-seller/">Buyers don&#8217;t sit and wait for sellers</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-6729" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/12/the-buying-journey-vs-the-sales-process-the-buyer-is-not-sitting-and-waiting-for-the-seller/buyers-not-waiting-3/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-6729" style="margin: 5px;" title="buyers-not-waiting" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/buyers-not-waiting2.jpg" alt="" width="197" height="192" /></a>Around 85% of a buyer&#8217;s pre-purchase, back-end decision issues get addressed privately, outside of the seller&#8217;s purview, and a seller has no place at the table. Here is <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/07/buyers-buying-journey-podcast-2-making-sales-relevant/">where we lose our sales</a> &#8211; as buyers manage the internal politics, and the strategic/change issues &#8211; not because our solutions aren&#8217;t relevant or because we haven&#8217;t done a good job selling.</p>
<p>The sales process discovers need, gathers data to determine a solution fit, and places the solution. Buyers need that data and the sales function is vital. But first they absolutely must make sure that a <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/04/deliver-the-right-content-at-the-right-stage-of-the-buy-path/">new solution fits</a> comfortably, and causes no major disruption on a human or a strategic level.</p>
<p><strong>BEHIND-THE-SCENES, BACK-END, OFF-LINE</strong></p>
<p>The modern sales model came into full flower (although it&#8217;s been around since the Serpent convinced Eve to eat the apple) in 1937 with Dale Carnegie&#8217;s <em>How to Win Friends and Influence People</em>.  At that time, gathering needs and discussing solution was simple: there were very few competitive solutions, and very little capability for buyers to get the information they needed.</p>
<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/01/the-5-mistakes-sales-people-make-that-lose-them-business/">Times have changed</a>, but the sales model hasn&#8217;t changed its goals and thrust toward solution placement, even as astonishing technology is available to help.</p>
<p>The buyer&#8217;s entire behind-the-scenes pre-purchase buy-in process remains unaddressed and these back-end issues are far more confounding now than they were in 1937. And nothing about the sales model &#8211; even when <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/11/marketing-automation-experience/" target="_blank">marketing automation</a> and sales enablement is applied &#8211; addresses these off-line issues.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, sales treats a &#8216;need&#8217; as if it were an isolated event, and separate from the day-to-day activities and rules inherent in the buyer&#8217;s environment. But until everyone (EVERYONE) is on board with the level and specifics of the change that would be required if they were to make a purchase, buyers can&#8217;t buy (see my latest book <em><a href="http://dirtylittlesecretsbook.com" target="_blank">Dirty Little Secrets: why buyers can&#8217;t buy and sellers can&#8217;t sell and what you can do about it</a>)</em>: the disruption to their system would be well beyond the positives of solving one of their problems.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s estimated that 80% of buyers will purchase a solution (yours or your competitor&#8217;s) at some point within 2 years of their first contact with a sales professional. That leaves behind a trail of dead sales people &#8211; most of whom probably had a great solution, but were either too early in the <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/learning/?source=nav" target="_blank">buyer&#8217;s decision cycle</a>, or their Buying Decision Team just didn&#8217;t know how to adopt the change a new solution would bring.</p>
<p><strong>QUESTIONS TO PONDER</strong></p>
<p>Why is the personal, political, <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/08/buying-enablement/">human side of the buying journey</a> ignored during a seller&#8217;s outreach? Why is it assumed that the seller &#8216;knows&#8217; what the buyer needs, or &#8216;knows&#8217; what&#8217;s going on behind the scenes, and assumes that that &#8216;knowing&#8217; is sufficient to sell a solution?</p>
<p>Why do sellers prefer to wait for buyers to &#8216;show up&#8217; <em>after</em> they&#8217;ve traversed their perilous back-end, political journey rather than <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training.php?source=nav"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">adding a new skill</span></a> set to help them manage the change and buy-in issues (and close sales in 1/8 the time)?</p>
<p>Why is the focus on making an appointment, assuming that once the buyer sees your bright, shiny (and professional, naturally) face the buyer will just ignore the policy problems, and internal politics, they need to manage before they buy? Sales people lose over 90% of their prospects by <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/12/do-you-want-to-make-a-sale-or-an-appointment/">focusing on an appointment</a>, when it&#8217;s so simple to help buyers recognize their buying steps on the first call. And when they invite you to meet, they will have the entire Buying Decision Team.</p>
<p>What needs to happen for sellers to recognize that a <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/04/the-buyers-journey/">buying journey</a> is far, far more complex than fixing a need? Or that the need is sitting and waiting for the seller to show up? Or that the need is just sitting on a shelf, by itself, and can be plucked out and fixed and then put back where it was with no ramifications to the rest of the buyer&#8217;s system?</p>
<p>Why is it so difficult for sellers to want to add a capability to support the 90%+ of what buyers are doing off-line, without them, and prefer instead to contain their skills to solution focus and lose a very high percentage of prospective sales?</p>
<p>What would you need to know or believe differently in order to add a decision facilitation skill &#8211; <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/change.php" target="_blank">Buying Facilitation Method®</a> &#8211; to your current sales skills to help buyers achieve this buy in?</p>
<p>Buyers need to resolve a (business) problem &#8211; they don&#8217;t necessarily need your solution. But until or unless they manage their own off-line, back-end change management issues, they cannot buy.</p>
<p>Your job should be to <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/03/why-arent-our-prospects-buying/">help them manage the buying journey</a> &#8211; and THEN you can sell.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>There are many ways to learn Buying Facilitation®:</p>
<ul>
<li> 3-Day Public Training in Austin in early June (<a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/contact.php">contact Sharon Drew to discuss</a>)</li>
<li> <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training.php">Buying Facilitation® corporate training</a></li>
<li> <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/42-26-Week-Buying-Facilitation-Guided-Study-Coaching-Session.aspx">Guided Study program</a> for individuals or teams</li>
<li> <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/c/22-Guided-Study-and-Learning-Accelerators.aspx">Learning Accelerators</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Sharon Drew is a featured speaker at the <a href="http://www.mediapost.com/events/?/showID/SearchInsiderSummit.11.FL">Search Insider Summit</a> – May 4 – 7 , 2011</p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><a title="Learn Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/" target="_blank">Learn Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/c/21-1-1-Coaching.aspx">Implement Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php">License Buying Facilitation</a><a title="License Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php?source=nav" target="_blank">®</a></div>
<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/12/the-buying-journey-vs-the-sales-process-the-buyer-is-not-sitting-and-waiting-for-the-seller/">Buyers don&#8217;t sit and wait for sellers</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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		<title>Selling doesn’t cause buying</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 14:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you think about your numbers (closing percentages, total calls, etc.), and consider the objections, the price issues, the delayed sales cycles, the excuses, and those who just, well, disappear, don&#8217;t you realize these same problems have been cropping up, um, forever? And that whatever you seem to be doing to &#8216;correct&#8217; the issue doesn&#8217;t seem to [...]<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/12/why-wont-sellers-change/">Selling doesn’t cause buying</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-7898" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/12/why-wont-sellers-change/sales_loss/"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-7898" style="margin: 5px;" title="sales_loss" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/sales_loss-193x250.jpg" alt="" width="181" height="235" /></a>When you think about your numbers (closing percentages, total calls, etc.), and consider the objections, the price issues, <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/06/why-sales-fail-3/">the delayed sales cycles</a>, the excuses, and those who just, well, disappear, don&#8217;t you realize these same problems have been cropping up, um, forever? And that whatever you seem to be doing to &#8216;correct&#8217; the issue doesn&#8217;t seem to work?</p>
<p>And you still expect different results?</p>
<p>Do you realize you&#8217;d rather suffer with the long sales cycle rather than actually <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/04/the-buyers-journey/">enter the buyer&#8217;s journey</a> much earlier and help them navigate through their decision issues and buy effortlessly? And when I suggest there is a way to do that, you don&#8217;t want to change?</p>
<p>Do you realize you&#8217;d rather think your customer is stupid than understand that their behind-the-scenes decision issues &#8211; their budget-sharing, their turf and ego issues, their vendor issues, or manager issues, or mergers, or or or &#8211; are keeping them from being able to buy? And that their buying decision and need is separate from your sales activities or outreach? Even <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/02/your-solution-is-the-last-thing-the-buyer-needs/">separate from their need or your solution</a>?</p>
<p>Do you realize that you spend time trying to &#8216;get to&#8217; or &#8216;understand&#8217; or &#8216;<a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/02/is-sales-a-relationship-driven-business/">have a relationship with</a>&#8216; the folks you consider to be &#8216;The Decision Makers&#8217; rather than realize that the entire Buying Decision Team not only has to be on board (and you&#8217;ll never, ever, get to meet or influence the entire team) but whoever touches the solution must add their two cents to the solution choice &#8212; and you can never find them, know them, understand them all &#8211; before they can buy?</p>
<p>That it&#8217;s not about their pain, or need your solution your relationship/kindness/trustworthiness and it <em>is </em>about</p>
<ul>
<li>their <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/05/the-buying-journey-vs-the-sales-process-the-buyer-is-not-sitting-and-waiting-for-the-seller/">change management</a> issues</li>
<li>the buy-in from those who touch the solution</li>
<li>their need design a path to reduced disruption when adding a new solution</li>
<li>their <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/03/buyer-readiness/">policies, politics, and people</a>.</li>
</ul>
<p>We are using a scissors to cut a lawn, and complaining that it&#8217;s not acting like a lawn mower. And complaining loudly. For a long time. And getting paid for the extra time/output for using the scissors.</p>
<p><strong>WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT THE BUYER&#8217;S JOURNEY?</strong></p>
<p>My friend Andy Rudin once cheekily said to me something like, Why should I care about the buyer&#8217;s journey? And he&#8217;s right! Sellers are getting paid to use a scissors. But they&#8217;re complaining about their results, and still not willing to buy/use the lawn mower right in front of them. What would you need to believe differently to be willing to consider that <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/03/why-arent-our-prospects-buying/">seller/buyer problems are change-management problems</a>, not solution choice issues? That the last thing the buyer needs is your solution? That until there is buy-in from all folks who touch the solution they cannot/will not buy? And the sales model merely manages needs assessment and solution placement &#8211; not the necessary change management/buy-in issues buyers must first contend with.</p>
<p>Go beyond what is expected of you.<br />
Earn more money.<br />
Close much, much sooner.<br />
Help buyers manage change as part of your solution.<br />
Influence the Buying Decision Team <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/03/first-contact-what-to-do-why-and-how-to-get-the-results-you-want/">from the first call</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/04/fighting-for-failure-why-do-sales-folks-defend-their-activities/">You cannot do this with sales</a>. Are you ready to actually do something about the delays and lost customers? Why haven&#8217;t you done so before now? You read my posts, buy my books, and yet aren&#8217;t changing your sales model. What would need to happen for you to be willing to add a decision facilitation capability to the front end of your sales model?</p>
<p>If you are ready to learn,  let us help:</p>
<p>Read sample chapters of my two last books &#8211; <a href="http://newsalesparadigm.com/pdfs/DirtyLittleSecretsSample.pdf"><em>Dirty Little Secrets</em></a> and <em><a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/ebooks/BuyingFacilitSample1.pdf">Buying Facilitation®: the new way to sell</a>. </em>Then <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/47-Bundle-Dirty-Little-Secrets-Buying-Facilitation-.aspx">buy them both</a><br />
Listen to <a href="http://qvidian.com/about/partners/Morgen-Facilitations">podcasts of a recent interview</a> with Sharon Drew on how buyers buy.<br />
<a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training.php?source=nav">Let our licensees</a> run a Facilitating Buying Decisions workshop for you.<br />
Let Sharon Drew <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training.php">train your company</a>.</p>
<p>But stop complaining, and begin actually helping buyers buy.</p>
<p><strong><em>sd</em></strong></p>
<p>Come to my loft in Austin and learn Buying Facilitation® with me or send a trainer to learn to train your folks. Buying Facilitation® <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php">licensing program</a> that includes Facilitating Buying Decisions: July 2-8, Austin TX.</p>
<p>Webinar with Method Frameworks June 15th:<br />
<a href="http://www.methodframeworks.com/strategic-planning-xchange/June-2011-webinar-registration">Buy-in: A Radical Approach To Change Management</a></p>
<p>Consider <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/47-Bundle-Dirty-Little-Secrets-Buying-Facilitation-.aspx">purchasing the bundle</a>: <em>Dirty Little Secrets</em> plus my last book <em>Buying Facilitation</em>®<em>: the new way to sell that influences and expands decisions. </em>These books were written to be read together, as they offer the full complement of concepts to help you learn and understand Buying Facilitation® – the new skill set that gives you the ability to lead buyers through their buying decisions. In addition, you will also receive a bonus illustrated booklet.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/71-Audio-MP3s-Live-Training.aspx">Buy the MP3′s of Sharon Drew</a> making live phone prospecting and qualifying calls.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Learn Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/" target="_blank">Learn Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/c/21-1-1-Coaching.aspx">Implement Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php">License Buying Facilitation</a><a title="License Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php?source=nav" target="_blank">®</a></p>
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		<itunes:subtitle>When you think about your numbers (closing percentages, total calls, etc.), and consider the objections, the price issues, the delayed sales cycles, the excuses, and those who just, well, disappear, don&#039;t you realize these same problems have been cropp...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>When you think about your numbers (closing percentages, total calls, etc.), and consider the objections, the price issues, the delayed sales cycles, the excuses, and those who just, well, disappear, don&#039;t you realize these same problems have been cropping up, um, forever? And that whatever you seem to be doing to &#039;correct&#039; the issue doesn&#039;t seem to work?

And you still expect different results?

Do you realize you&#039;d rather suffer with the long sales cycle rather than actually enter the buyer&#039;s journey much earlier and help them navigate through their decision issues and buy effortlessly? And when I suggest there is a way to do that, you don&#039;t want to change?

Do you realize you&#039;d rather think your customer is stupid than understand that their behind-the-scenes decision issues - their budget-sharing, their turf and ego issues, their vendor issues, or manager issues, or mergers, or or or - are keeping them from being able to buy? And that their buying decision and need is separate from your sales activities or outreach? Even separate from their need or your solution?

Do you realize that you spend time trying to &#039;get to&#039; or &#039;understand&#039; or &#039;have a relationship with&#039; the folks you consider to be &#039;The Decision Makers&#039; rather than realize that the entire Buying Decision Team not only has to be on board (and you&#039;ll never, ever, get to meet or influence the entire team) but whoever touches the solution must add their two cents to the solution choice -- and you can never find them, know them, understand them all - before they can buy?

That it&#039;s not about their pain, or need your solution your relationship/kindness/trustworthiness and it is about

	their change management issues
	the buy-in from those who touch the solution
	their need design a path to reduced disruption when adding a new solution
	their policies, politics, and people.

We are using a scissors to cut a lawn, and complaining that it&#039;s not acting like a lawn mower. And complaining loudly. For a long time. And getting paid for the extra time/output for using the scissors.

WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT THE BUYER&#039;S JOURNEY?

My friend Andy Rudin once cheekily said to me something like, Why should I care about the buyer&#039;s journey? And he&#039;s right! Sellers are getting paid to use a scissors. But they&#039;re complaining about their results, and still not willing to buy/use the lawn mower right in front of them. What would you need to believe differently to be willing to consider that seller/buyer problems are change-management problems, not solution choice issues? That the last thing the buyer needs is your solution? That until there is buy-in from all folks who touch the solution they cannot/will not buy? And the sales model merely manages needs assessment and solution placement - not the necessary change management/buy-in issues buyers must first contend with.

Go beyond what is expected of you.
Earn more money.
Close much, much sooner.
Help buyers manage change as part of your solution.
Influence the Buying Decision Team from the first call.

You cannot do this with sales. Are you ready to actually do something about the delays and lost customers? Why haven&#039;t you done so before now? You read my posts, buy my books, and yet aren&#039;t changing your sales model. What would need to happen for you to be willing to add a decision facilitation capability to the front end of your sales model?

If you are ready to learn,  let us help:

Read sample chapters of my two last books - Dirty Little Secrets and Buying Facilitation®: the new way to sell. Then buy them both
Listen to podcasts of a recent interview with Sharon Drew on how buyers buy.
Let our licensees run a Facilitating Buying Decisions workshop for you.
Let Sharon Drew train your company.

But stop complaining, and begin actually helping buyers buy.

sd

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		<title>An Intelligent Contact Sheet</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2011 12:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sharon Drew Morgen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The field of marketing automation would like to get the right data, at the right time, to prospects who sign up on contact sheets...<p><a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/11/an-intelligent-contact-sheet/">An Intelligent Contact Sheet</a> is a post from: <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com">SharonDrewMorgen.com</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-10100" href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/11/an-intelligent-contact-sheet/expediter-logo/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-10100" title="expediter-logo" src="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/expediter-logo.png" alt="" width="192" height="107" /></a>The field of marketing automation would like to get the right data, at the right time, to prospects who sign up on <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/05/how-do-you-design-a-contact-sheet-and-are-you-really-capturing-the-right-data/">contact sheets</a>. But with the  available technology, it&#8217;s not possible: the wrong data are being gathered and scored, the wrong content is being sent out and collected, the technology is not set up to determine or support each stage of the off-line buying decision path, and there is no capability to lead the buyer sequentially (with unique content at each step) through their internal change management/decision issues.</p>
<p>The problem is they are working from a sales model; but buyers buy using a change management model as they must address their internal, human, unique decision issues prior to a solution choice. Here is where the real influence happens.</p>
<p>But by using the underlying assumptions of the sales model &#8211; with the right need and the right solution, there will be a sale, or if someone signs up for a webinar or white paper, they have a certain amount of interest in a purchase &#8211; the automation process is limited to push technology.</p>
<p>And the lead scoring assumptions fail also: by assuming a prospect has a higher value if they do several activities, we are not supporting or influencing the entire decision journey, but waiting to close the low hanging fruit. There should be a higher close rate:  of 10,000 names, approximately 400 are scored as viable, and <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/01/gread-leads-no-business-is-marketing-automation-a-hype/">of these, 2 close</a>. How many of the 10,000 might be buyers? How many of the 400 might be buyers if approached or supported differently?</p>
<p><strong>WHERE MARKETING AUTOMATION IS GOING WRONG</strong></p>
<p>There is something obviously wrong with this picture.</p>
<ul>
<li>Just because someone visits a site or signs up for something, doesn&#8217;t mean they are a buyer or a prospect;</li>
<li>Just because someone only visits a site once doesn&#8217;t mean they aren&#8217;t a buyer;</li>
<li>Just because someone has a low or high <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/02/lead-scoring-misses-the-point/">lead score doesn&#8217;t mean they are/aren&#8217;t a buyer</a>;</li>
<li>98% of prospects who are approached for an appointment after they score high enough to be considered a real prospect decline the appointment: this does not mean they aren&#8217;t buyers&#8230;just that they don&#8217;t want an appointment;</li>
<li>Prospects need different types of data at different points along the buying decision path, and using current technology there is no way to know, or influence, <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/04/deliver-the-right-content-at-the-right-stage-of-the-buy-path/">where the buyer is on his/her decision journey</a> &#8211; so companies inundate site visitors with junk &#8211; um, I mean nurture material &#8211; hoping to hit the sweet spot.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>SHIFT THE FOCUS TO CHANGE MANAGEMENT</strong></p>
<p>Imagine if marketing automation used change management thinking: until or unless buyers manage the behind-the-scenes change issues that will be effected when/if they make a purchase, and until or unless all folks who will touch the new solution get their voices heard, no purchase can happen.</p>
<p>Current marketing automation does nothing to address the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/sharondrew#p/u/14/YFgYaMZ0YVk">real buying decision journey</a> &#8211; the 90% of the purchase decision that is change related, internal, and idiosyncratic - as it&#8217;s not solution based. It certainly does nothing to move prospects along each type of decision to help them.</p>
<p>Here are some questions to consider:</p>
<ol>
<li>What do prospects need to do to get the right folks involved to <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2010/10/making-change-work-buy-in-work/">give their buy-in</a> for a purchase? Until they do, they won&#8217;t buy regardless of how great your white paper is.</li>
<li>How does someone take an idea from a thought in a shower to getting folks to start thinking about making a change? Until people back the idea, they won&#8217;t get the buy-in to make a purchase.</li>
<li>How does the Buying Decision Team evaluate solutions? Until they know how, they won&#8217;t make a purchase.</li>
<li>What sort of data does any site visitor need to make a final purchasing decision? Until they have the specific data needed by the entire Buying Decision Team, they won&#8217;t make a purchase.</li>
</ol>
<p>Using the underlying tenants of change management as per my <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/">Buying Facilitation®</a> model, I have developed an <strong>Intelligent Contact Sheet</strong> called the <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/resources/expediter-decision-tool.php?source=nav">EXpediter©</a> that gets the appropriate data to site visitors at each stage of the buying decision path, starting from an idea. And it leads them from one step to the next. Some facts:</p>
<ul>
<li>It&#8217;s easy to slip into your current marketing automation set up.</li>
<li>You will know exactly what stage the visitor is at, what specifically to send them, and whether or not the <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/2011/07/whos-in-the-meeting-and-whos-not/">Buying Decision Team</a> is already on board.</li>
<li>You will be able to lead site visitors through the range of their off-line decisions.</li>
<li>You&#8217;ll be able to follow the site visitor to other sites, know how/if they are evaluating your solution, and help them move to the next stage of their decision.</li>
<li>You will know who to call to make an appointment with, at what point to place the call, and your success rates for appointment-getting and closing will be much higher.</li>
</ul>
<p>I&#8217;ve got the content. I can work with your tech team to implement it. Or my technology partner <a href="http://www.genoo.com/">Genoo</a> can lend a hand. Interested? Let&#8217;s speak.</p>
<p>sd</p>
<p>Discover how Buying Facilitation® works with <a href="http://sharondrewmorgen.com/category/sales-marketing-automation/">marketing automation</a> and can help you close more sales.</p>
<p>Wanting to learn more? <a href="http://dirtylittlesecretsbook.com/">Dirty Little Secrets: why buyers can’t buy and sellers can’t sell and what to do about it</a>. Check out the site for more details.</p>
<p>Or consider <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/p/47-Bundle-Dirty-Little-Secrets-Buying-Facilitation-.aspx">purchasing the bundle</a>: Dirty Little Secrets plus my last book Buying Facilitation®: the new way to sell that influences and expands decisions. In addition, you will also receive a bonus illustrated booklet.</p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><a title="Learn Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/" target="_blank">Learn Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.buyingfacilitation.com/store/c/21-1-1-Coaching.aspx">Implement Buying Facilitation®</a> | <a href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php">License Buying Facilitation</a><a title="License Buying Facilitation" href="http://www.newsalesparadigm.com/buying-facilitation/services/training-license.php?source=nav" target="_blank">®</a></div>
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